There are a number of online sites for those in the lifestyle, not to mention groups on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, X and other Social media sites.
In regard to the online swingers sites, what makes a good profile?
What sites do you prefer and find to be worthwhile?
And what things constitute red flags for you?
For us, we prefer RedHotPie, finding the site the best to navigate with a great forum section that seems to have an answer to most things. A datefinder section that can be a little hit and miss but can at least get your profile seen by others who are local. And the events section is really good, we use it lo list our meet and greets and are able to incorporate a link to tickets there. The verification system is good as well, requiring profiles to submit a photo with them holding up a code they recieve to verify they are what they represent themselves as (so single males don’t represent as a couple for example).
Other sites that are popular are AdultMatchMaker, Swingers Heaven, AdultFriendFinder and Fetlife (more directed at the kink community).
What are your experiences in the online world? What sites do you prefer and why?
In regard to the online swingers sites, what makes a good profile? What encourages you engage?
And what things constitute red flags for you?


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