What Makes a Great Venue for Swingers Parties?

Some of us enjoy attending a good party, be it at a special venue or at a private party held at a house, AirBnB or the like.

Many are organised by those who host parties regularly, some are through lifestyle social clubs and others are more impromptu rpivate affairs held in private residences.

Usually invite only, as of course, discretion is important as is creating a good balance of attendees for the desired feel of the party.

There can be themes, everything form a simple fancy dress, to more specialised themes such as a girls only party, bi friendly for all, a newbies night to more of a GB style night. And of course, good parties vett potential attendees and are often held in venues that are set up to accomodate a swingers party, with rooms, a group play room, even a S&M style room for those inclined.

The requirement to play is something many new to the lifestyle are worried about, but as is standard, most well run parties have zero requirement to play, or even get naked. Consent is always vital to get, no always means no.

What sort of factors do you find are integral in a good party venue, and of course, in relation to the crowd?

Many of those who are only exploring the lifestyle, “dipping their toes in” often have some pre-held conceptions of what a swingers party entails, often very far of the mark as to what they really are.

So, let’s dispel some myths and perhaps share some recommendations to help each other and who knows, maybe someone who runs parties is paying attention and will take some of the information on board.