Why Single Men Are Often Excluded from Lifestyle Events (and What’s Really Behind the Door Policy)A candid community conversation—minus the sugar coating

If you’ve spent any time around the lifestyle, you’ve probably noticed a pattern: couples and single women are welcomed with open arms, while single men are… well… politely filtered, heavily vetted, or flat-out declined. This isn’t about hate. It’s about history, logistics, and protecting the vibe. Let’s unpack why these policies exist—and why they’re unlikely... Continue Reading →

Feminism, Freedom & the Lifestyle: Women Taking Charge of Their Desire

Women are increasingly reclaiming their sexual autonomy and pleasure, challenging traditional norms. Through swinging and consensual non-monogamy, they assert their desires without shame, often finding empowerment, community, and improved relationships. This lifestyle fosters confidence, communication, and self-respect, intertwining feminism with the celebration of sexuality as a source of strength.

Bulls in the Lifestyle: More Than Just Single Males

The term "bull" refers to a confident and desirable single male engaged in lifestyle dynamics like hotwife or cuckolding. Not every single male qualifies as a bull, as respect, reliability, and behaviour are crucial. Successful bulls enhance couples' experiences and adhere to etiquette, while those lacking these qualities are often excluded.

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