If you’ve spent any time around the lifestyle, you’ve probably noticed a pattern: couples and single women are welcomed with open arms, while single men are… well… politely filtered, heavily vetted, or flat-out declined. This isn’t about hate. It’s about history, logistics, and protecting the vibe. Let’s unpack why these policies exist—and why they’re unlikely... Continue Reading →
Feminism, Freedom & the Lifestyle: Women Taking Charge of Their Desire
Women are increasingly reclaiming their sexual autonomy and pleasure, challenging traditional norms. Through swinging and consensual non-monogamy, they assert their desires without shame, often finding empowerment, community, and improved relationships. This lifestyle fosters confidence, communication, and self-respect, intertwining feminism with the celebration of sexuality as a source of strength.
Bulls in the Lifestyle: More Than Just Single Males
The term "bull" refers to a confident and desirable single male engaged in lifestyle dynamics like hotwife or cuckolding. Not every single male qualifies as a bull, as respect, reliability, and behaviour are crucial. Successful bulls enhance couples' experiences and adhere to etiquette, while those lacking these qualities are often excluded.

